Is there a way you can develop a social conscience in your child and teach her to care about others?  Children shouldn’t have to wait until they are grown to start helping others; by then, it may be too late in today’s “me” culture. Carol Weisman, author of Raising Charitable Children, thinks you should introduce your children to volunteering and giving at an early age, even as young as three or four.

Teach your children compassion and generosity not only by example but also by actively engaging them, making philanthropy a family affair and a way of life. You can deduct a small amount, say a dollar, from your child’s allowance every week to be set aside for charitable giving. Or make it a tradition that every year on your child’s birthday, in addition to the regular presents, you let your child make a small donation to the charity of her choice.

Help your child decide where to give by focusing on subjects and activities that interest her. For example, if your child loves nature, guide her towards an environmental charity.  If possible, take your child to visit the charity itself.

You can also help children cope with tragic world events by teaching them how they can give in times of need. Your child will learn that anyone can make an impact in the world, a lesson that will make an impression for life.